If you often feel like you are making your way through life on autopilot then you are certainly not alone! With busy, repetitive schedules it is completely normal to start feeling as though you are just going through the motions. A good way to discover if this is true to you is to try and remember your day at the end of it. How much of your day can you actually recall and how much of it were you simply not present for as you powered through on autopilot?
Living life in this way is the exact opposite of living a life of mindfulness. It is living a life of habit and unconscious actions because you have become bored or exhausted by your routine. When you exist in this way you will find that you spend a lot of time focusing your conscious thoughts on the past or the future, as opposed to engaging in the present moment. This will usually take the form of regretting moments from the past and worrying about the future.
So, how can you break this cyclic way of living to turn auto-pilot off and live a life of mindfulness?
The answer that I am going to offer you may seem incredibly simplistic but I can assure you it works! And that answer is to make a conscious effort to bring your attention into each and every moment. If you are not paying attention to your life as you live it then how can you possibly expect to feel satisfied and fulfilled by life?
You may feel as though you have too many mundane tasks to complete during the day to want to be continuously present, but that is the mistake that causes this mindlessness to seep into other areas of your life. By trying to conduct every moment with awareness and intention you will be much better equipped to be in control of your thoughts and your actions. You will rule your emotions and you will approach each new day with a positive attitude.
As each and every interaction and situation unfolds and develops during your day, make an effort to pay attention to it and deal with it as it is happening. Resist the urge to make judgements and always work to find resolutions. When you do so you will be less likely to have an emotional backlog at the end of each day that could prevent you being present in the following one!
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